“Positive thinking’’
This word has changed my life! I have been raised in a culture that believes when good things happen then it’s usually a sign that bad events will occur later, where everyone is trained to expect less from life (that way it’ll guarantee they won’t be disappointed). Everybody is trained to accept failure as a destiny and success as a gift.
“Positive thinkers’’
Going through a few books and studies, I have found that they had something in common: they found that successful people were usually positive thinkers. These people looked at problems as challenges; ready to good lessons out of a tragedy.
Few comments received by negative people (I used to be one of them):
Being positive won’t change my sad history.
You positive people live in dreams and never see life as it really is.
You choose to avoid the truth most of the time, and you lie to yourselves and other, pretending everything is good..
After a lot of analysis I found that the answer is simple. I have learned that I won’t lose anything by being positive, at least I will feel good for the time being. Nothing will change sad history; it’s best to accept it and move on. I have studied closely a few successful managers or friends and found that they have trained their mind to look for solutions and avoid being stuck with problems.
In general they consistently work on proving, to themselves and others, that their theories are working, successfully operated, it is always a challenge for them how to get it done, how to get it right.
It is a journey of accepting bad and sad things, accepting mistakes and wrong decisions and moving on to discover new paths and find the strength to keep going. Learning good habits is a slow and difficult process and it feels like
The secret: I don’t know if you had the chance to read this book; however it’s trying to tell us that positive thinking somehow turns to energy, some type of positive energy which leads to change events, universe, people next to us, as we all affect our surroundings and we are affected by it.
Whether you believe this or not, I know you will agree with the following:
You feel comfortable when you meet a pleasant, smiling neighbor or colleague in the morning, not that lazy sleepy face, as if telling you “I hope I was born in different place or different time”.
You feel down and negative when you surround yourself by friends and people who just keep telling you how low they feel or how life is hard and miserable nowadays, or how difficult living in Dubai is, traffic…….
I know that for some people this is nothing new but I Just wanted to pass a message for the people around me (especially from the Middle East). I wanted to say that it’s not a crime to be positive, focus on good things and look away from the bad ones and don’t feel guilty if life smiles at you because you deserve it!
Consider yourself equal to others and accept that life is difficult but keep walking up the mountain & remember that with each step you’ll see more things and the higher you go the view will be more beautiful and you’ll see the which is the right direction to take.
So keep walking with a smile!!!!